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	<title>Tom LaForce &#187; Email</title>
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		<title>Pick Up the Phone</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 21:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom LaForce</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Email]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Office Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Telephone]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Use the phone in lieu of email when your response is going to take a long-time to write. You'll be better understood and save time.]]></description>
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<p>Many times I have warned people against the <a href="http://tomlaforce.com/better-email-use-makes-stronger-teams/">danger of using email</a>. Usually the warning goes something like this, &#8220;Email is missing both visual and audio cues that people need to accurately interpret what you are trying to say. Without this information, your message is likely to be misinterpreted, and that can cause big problems for you as well as your intended recipient.&#8221;</p>
<p>Today I&#8217;m going to add one more reason to the list of why you should remove your hands from your keyboard and pick up the phone. It will save you time.</p>
<h3>How it usually works</h3>
<p>Think about it. You&#8217;re cruising through your email inbox when you get to one from a co-worker who wants your feedback on a proposal. You read the proposal and decide that yes you have some feedback. You start typing. You want to make sure you provide all the feedback. You also want to write carefully so as to not offend your co-worker. You hammer out your thoughts in about fifteen minutes, but then spend another fifteen polishing before you are ready to send. Your feedback generates a clarifying question from the other person and back and forth you go with a few more notes. In the end, you invested nearly an hour conveying your thoughts regarding this one email.</p>
<h3>How it could work</h3>
<p><div class="woo-sc-quote boxed right"><p>Hey Chuck, got your note and thought it would be easiest to simply give you a quick call&#8230;</p></div> Now imagine going a different route. This time you pick up the phone and say, &#8220;Hey Chuck, got your note and thought it would be easiest to simply give you a quick call&#8230;&#8221; You share your thoughts. He asks a few clarifying questions, and 10 minutes later you are done. You&#8217;ve shared the feedback and probably provided greater understanding to Chuck by allowing him to immediately ask questions. Based on his tone, you were able to adjust your response on the fly to minimize any hurt feelings.</p>
<p>Want to get through the email inbox faster? Pick out anything you believe requires a &#8220;well-crafted&#8221; response, and call the person with your answer. You&#8217;ll save time and maybe even prevent carpel tunnel.</p>
<p>Oh, and let&#8217;s not forget, be better understood. A triple win!</p>
<p><em>Image credit: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/moneyblognewz/5328721576/sizes/l/in/photostream/">MoneyBlogNewz</a></em></p>
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		<title>Workshop: Clear Connections</title>
		<link>http://tomlaforce.com/new-workshop-clear-connections/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 12:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom LaForce</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Team Leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Email]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Telephone]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[New workshop on email and telephone communication effectiveness.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Communication is hard enough in face-to-face situations. It&#8217;s even more challenging when we are using telephone or email to convey our message to another person. In this two hour workshop, we will examine the communication process, the major problems that create misunderstandings, and techniques we can use to raise our phone and email communication effectiveness.</p>
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		<title>Better Email Use Makes Stronger Teams</title>
		<link>http://tomlaforce.com/better-email-use-makes-stronger-teams/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 21:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom LaForce</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Team Leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Email]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teamwork]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Effective communication is critical to a team's success. Make email effectiveness one key part of your overall team development strategy.]]></description>
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<p>If you and your teammates are experiencing communication problems, I have one question for you. How much of your communication is happening via email?</p>
<p>When the problems are many, the percentage is usually high. This is because email is missing some key information that helps us understand the message, namely body language and vocal qualities.</p>
<p>In research published in the <em>Journal of Personality and Social Psychology</em>, a study found that email recipients only correctly interpreted an email&#8217;s tone 50% of the time. The study also found that people believed they got it right 90% of the time. You can image the problems this can lead to on a team that communicates primarily through email.</p>
<p>Most teams would benefit from using less email and having more telephone and face-to-face conversations. But let&#8217;s face it. Email is great because I can fire off a message whenever it&#8217;s convenient for me and not have to be present if there&#8217;s an unpleasant reaction.</p>
<p>If you are going to use it, then I recommend the following tips. My guess is that everyone has at least a couple of these they could improve upon.</p>
<ul>
<li>Get their attention with an appropriate 	(honest and interesting) subject line. Don&#8217;t trick them by overdoing 	it.</li>
<li>Keep it short and to the point.  People 	are busy and won&#8217;t read your email if it looks too long.</li>
<li>Pay attention to spelling, grammar and 	punctuation. Make it easy to read, unless you want to send the 	message that you are either uneducated or don&#8217;t care.</li>
<li>Make it personal, using proper 	salutations and sign-offs.</li>
<li>Use the right level of formality. This 	is dependent upon the relationship you have with the intended 	recipient. Choose the wrong level, and you risk offending.</li>
<li>Send it only to the person or people who 	need to receive it.</li>
<li>Assume your email will be forwarded, 	especially to people you don&#8217;t want to see it.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t try to convey humor, sarcasm, or 	other complex ideas. It just doesn&#8217;t come through very well.</li>
</ul>
<p>Effective communication is critical to a team&#8217;s success. Make email effectiveness one key part of your overall team development strategy.</p>
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		<title>Defuse Email Bombs Before They Blow</title>
		<link>http://tomlaforce.com/defuse-email-bombs-before-they-blow/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 14:50:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom LaForce</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Team Leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Conflict]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Email]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Prevent email misunderstandings by answering these questions prior to sending your next message.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomlaforce.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/texting-woman.jpg"><img style=' float: right; padding: 4px; margin: 0 0 2px 7px;'  class="alignright size-full wp-image-810" title="texting-woman" src="http://tomlaforce.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/texting-woman.jpg" alt="texting-woman" width="250" height="375" /></a>Email and texting are two extremely popular forms of communication, but are they effective?  I&#8217;m not so sure.</p>
<p>They seem to work best when the information is simple, short, and does not have or will not likely create an emotional charge.  The problem is that people use these communication channels for messages that don&#8217;t meet any of the above criteria.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s an especially popular way of delivering bad news or a critical message to someone.  While it may be popular, it&#8217;s not effective when used in this manner.</p>
<p>The popularity stems from the misguided notion that sending my message in this way will protect me if there is an overly emotional negative response.  While it&#8217;s true that you may not be there to personally witness the response, it still manages to find you.</p>
<p>The message you sent is interpreted as an attack.  It&#8217;s as if you sent a bomb through the internet.  And what&#8217;s the recipient do?  They reciprocate with a bomb of their own, and this time they add a few more names to the CC list.</p>
<p>If you are interested in preventing this kind of unproductive email correspondence, ask a few questions before hitting the &#8220;Send&#8221; key.</p>
<ul>
<li>Would I be willing to say to the person’s face what I’m writing?</li>
<li>Have I made any assumptions about what the person really meant in her email?</li>
<li>How am I feeling right now, and how is my emotional state affecting what I write?</li>
<li>Who have I copied and why?</li>
<li>How is the recipient likely to react to my email?</li>
<li>Is email the best way of sending my message, or would the telephone or an in-person visit better serve the situation?</li>
<li>What have I written that could be misinterpreted?</li>
</ul>
<p>Email is a great tool when used properly. The trick is knowing when and when not to use it.</p>
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